The song is a staple of and graduation ceremonies ( ballagás ), often chosen for its message about choosing a path and committing to a future with someone else. It remains one of the most-played radio hits from the late 80s era of Hungarian music. Most kell eldöntenem - song and lyrics by Ferenc Demjén
The lyrics, written by Demjén himself, center on a where a relationship must either solidify or end.
While the film debuted in 1988 , the song was officially released on the soundtrack and has since appeared on numerous "Best Of" compilations, such as Filmslágerek (1998) and Greatest Hits No. 2 (2006).
The central refrain— "És ezt most kell eldöntenem / Te kellesz vagy a végtelen" (And I must decide this now / I need you or the infinite)—juxtaposes the security of a specific person against the vast, lonely freedom of "the infinite".
Demjén’s signature raspy yet emotive tenor conveys a sense of urgency and vulnerability, which helped the song reach legendary status in Hungary. 4. Cultural Significance
A blend of melodic piano and layered synthesizers creates a dramatic, atmospheric build-up.
It emphasizes shared culpability; if the relationship fails, "you are also at fault, not just me alone". 3. Musical Composition