John Legend - Used To Love U -
Directed by Ben Mor, the Official Music Video features a church setting where plays the role of a sermon leader. The narrative follows Legend as he realizes his current girlfriend is more interested in jewelry than him. In a moment of empowerment, he stands up and sings directly to her—and a congregation full of his exes—declaring his independence. Notably, a young Kat Graham makes an appearance toward the end of the video. Impact and Legacy
Legend addresses the pressure to provide a lavish lifestyle he can't afford, name-dropping figures like Puffy and Jay-Z as the "better" options for a partner who values money over love. John Legend - Used to Love U
The Anthem of Moving On: John Legend’s "Used to Love U" Before he was an EGOT-winning household name, John Legend was a rising pianist and songwriter stepping out from the shadows of industry giants. Released in August 2004, served as his debut solo single, introducing the world to a new brand of neo-soul that felt both timeless and fresh. The Genesis of a Legend Directed by Ben Mor, the Official Music Video
The song is a blunt, soul-searching exploration of a relationship's end. Unlike traditional R&B ballads that plead for a second chance, "Used to Love U" is an anthem of realization and exhaustion. Notably, a young Kat Graham makes an appearance
"Used to Love U" reached moderate commercial success, peaking at number 32 on the and hitting the top 30 in the UK and New Zealand. While "Ordinary People" became the album's massive breakout hit, this debut single established Legend's "Old School" aesthetic and vocal prowess.
The chorus is a powerful admission: "I realize that I just don't love you / Not like I used to". It captures the moment the "honeymoon" phase is replaced by the realization that the relationship is no longer worth the "fire". The Iconic Music Video