Often, the romantic journey isn't about finding a partner, but about the girl finding her voice. The relationship acts as a catalyst for her to set boundaries or overcome insecurities. Subverting the Trope

Storylines often contrast the girl’s internal fantasy (often fueled by books or movies) with the messy reality of teenage boys and social hierarchies.

What makes these romantic storylines so compelling is the psychological weight of "firsts." For a teenager, a first crush or a first breakup feels existential.